Mental Health Monday–Phobias: Are They Catching?

Natasha Hanova asks:

What is the difference between haphephobia and chiratophobia? Is it believable that a child with such a parent might exhibit symptoms too?


I had to do some research to find the answer…

HAPHEPHOBIA, simply put, is the fear of being touched. This can happen particularly in the cases of sexual assault whereby the victim becomes phobic of being touched by a member of the opposite sex (or the sex of whomever assaulted them, I’d guess).

A bit of lit trivia: Christian Grey from Fifty Shades of Grey apparently suffers from this phobia…though I didn’t really get that vibe from reading the book. He had trouble with casual touch, but when it came to, well, BDSM, he had a grand old time. *ahem*

Moving on…

Other names for Haphephobia include:

  • aphephobia
  • haphophobia
  • hapnophobia
  • haptephobia
  • haptophobia
  • thixophobia
  • chiratophobia

(Thank you, Wikipedia, for that info!

Phobias are considered the most common Anxiety Disorder. Most suffers are women (90% of phobia sufferers are women, in fact). Phobias often start from some sort of childhood incident that incited fear, dread, fear of death, or panic. Once someone equates fear with an object or situation (and the incident is extreme enough for that person), then they develop symptoms of anxiety and panic whenever presented with said object or situation. No one likes how anxiety/panic feels, so then the object or situation is avoided. MOST kids outgrow these fears (like the fear of the dark), HOWEVER, some people retain these phobias into adulthood.

There are several theories of how phobias work. It appears to include a combination of genetic inheritance (people with anxiety are likely to pass it off to their offspring genetically AND behaviorally), learned behaviors (I’m repeating myself, in a way, but it comes down to the Nature vs. Nuture debate), and individual experiences with scary things.

So, to answer Natasha’s second question, I’d say:

Yes, children can develop similar symptoms to their parents if their parents exhibit a phobia. They would likely be genetically prone to developing an anxiety disorder and symptoms can emerge based on how their parents interact with them.

For instance, a parent who is phobic of touching probably wouldn’t engage in much hugging, kissing, or general affection, etc with their kid and so the child would learn that it’s not okay to touch or that touching isn’t part of how people interact.

The good news is that phobias ARE treatable with therapy and/or medication.

Ok. Enough of my rambling. I hope that was helpful, Natasha!

Remember, these posts are for writing purposes only and are NOT intended to be medical/psychiatric advice or treatment.

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15 comments on “Mental Health Monday–Phobias: Are They Catching?

  1. roguemutt says:

    Is there a phobia of getting all these phobias? Phobiaphobia maybe? I’ll have to go look that up on Wikipedia.

  2. Karen Lange says:

    Thanks for the info. Have a great week!

  3. Thanks for answering this questions. Helps me understand my new characters better. The line “isn’t part of how people interact” really struck home. This is my characters “normal” which needs readjustment. Unfortunately for her, therapy/medication is not an option.

  4. This is super interesting. That would be a very had phobia to live with.

  5. Lynn Rush says:

    Wow. This is GREAT information! Thanks!!! 🙂

  6. Krispy says:

    That comic made me lol. It reminds me of Arrested Development & the running joke in the prison’s visitors room of NO TOUCHING!

    Helpful post and very interesting!

  7. Lydia K says:

    Wow, this is so interesting. Thanks Laura!

  8. This was fascinating. I remember studying phobias in Abnormal Psychology class long ago. I featured phobias in one of my drawer manuscripts. They make for interesting stories.

  9. Fascinating! I didn’t realize there was a name for the fear of being touched, probably because I come from a family where no one likes to be touched. Makes you wonder how the generations continue on. 😉

  10. I have validation. I’ve been telling people forever that I’m not crazy just because I don’t like or hugs or casual touches. I’ve been known to decline a handshake. It’s not rude, I just don’t want to touch you. Hubby comes from a big family of huggers. gah!

  11. Vicki Tremper says:

    Phobias fascinate me. Thanks for the info on phobic parents and their children.

  12. Linda Gray says:

    So interesting, thanks! Nature/nurture can mingle to express a phobia. What about without the nurture aspect–like in children of phobic parents who are raised by people other than their biological parents? Maybe no studies on that?

  13. Stephanie says:

    Very informative post.

    I had a fear of thunderstorms well into my teens. It’s mostly warn away now, but it will creep up on me every now and then when a big storm hits.

  14. A person with this phobia wouldn’t like to visit my family. We are touchers, huggers, kissers – even if we just saw the person an hour before.

  15. Rivenrod says:

    Phobias, strangely one of the least understood aspects of mental health.

    On the subject of mental health issues a good friend of mine has published Dandelions and Bad Hair Days – – in association with SANE (a mental health charity based in UK). It contains poetry and prose submitted by people with first hand experience.

    I thought you might like to take a look.


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